Tuesday, May 9, 2023

MIND AND HEART.....THE ONGOING BATTLE

 Sometimes there's a battle between the mind and the heart, the mind talks logic with justified facts but the heart is emotional and resists obeyance. A situation, though not uncontrollable, but definitely tough to tame. In the ongoing struggle, the heart is sometimes gripped in profound emotions which tend to blur the vision that the mind wants to show. Such fierce is the resistance from the heart at times, that the mind is under compulsion to surrender and the efforts to convince the heart go futile. This is where the decisions can go wrong, unless the soul steps in to strike a balance. The brain is wired to think and control our neurons and lead the train of thoughts. What is questionable and ponderable is whether the mind is always right and the heart always wrong. The point to understand here is whether there is anything right or wrong, or is it only perception. What is right to the mind can be wrong to the heart. 

Situations like this can really be boggling wherein the gut feeling also ceases to function. The state of dilemma persists, and the only solution is to surrender to the soul and permit it to take command. The soul will never misguide, rather it will help to be decisive and proceed as per the demand of the situation.  The tragedy is that we are not used to listening to our souls, our inner voices. 

Everything happens for a reason.....what is required is to accept and move on. 

Saturday, May 6, 2023

REFLECTIONS

 Ever wondered.....when you reflect on moments gone, most of them seem so amusing. The feeling of really ...did this happen.... incredible, did I do this.... and so many more crop up. 

We live moments only to make memories, memories which light up our lives even in the darkest hours. 

The mantra is therefore to make moments pleasant and enjoyable so that the memories getting weaved are beautiful and cherished. 

Easier said than done, as sometimes circumstances compel us to get gripped in gloominess and shadowed by depression, but one needs to remember that nothing is permanent in this world, not even our troubles. 

Years later....contemplation will usher this revelation!


KINDERGARTEN: THE GATEWAY TO EDUCATION

 

Swami Vivekananda said, “Education is the manifestation of the potentials already existing in an individual.”  “Free the child’s potential, and you will transform him into the world,” quoted Maria Montessori, a pioneer in Montessori education.

Thus we can see that, a child’s education gets kick started in the early years of his life, within a few months of his/her birth as the child starts realizing the use of his/her sense organs. Early childhood generally refers to the period from birth to the age of six, during which the child’s cognitive development starts, which includes building skills such as pre-reading, language, vocabulary, numeracy and awareness. Developmental scientists claim that the brain acquires a plethora of information about language in the first year of life even before infants can speak. By the time babies utter or understand their first words, their brains can comprehend which particular sounds their language uses, what sounds can be combined to create words, and the tempo and rhythm of words and phrases. Their gibberish chatters, highly entertaining, slowly verbalize into distinct articulation.

There is a strong connection between the development a child undergoes early in life and the level of success that the child will experience later in life. Infants exposed to the continual use of their visual, auditory, olfactory, tactile and sensory organs find themselves at an optimum level in perception to concepts in their later years of life. Therefore, no sooner than the child learns to walk, he/she is exposed to the new environment of early schooling, a prep – school concept which has emerged as a widespread trend in the field of education. Preschool curriculum comprises of various activity based play way methods oriented at enabling the child to imbibe the concepts related to recognition of objects, colours, shapes, sizes. It requires immense patience encompassed with utmost care and affection to infuse the kids with these concepts. The technique behind this pattern of education requires highly proficient teachers’ expertise in handling mood swings of the toddlers and fully devoted to the cause of training the young minds, and exposing them to the vast sea of knowledge. Once the recognition of alphabets and numbers gets going, the focus shifts to penmanship, a very difficult task for the trainers. Since the finger muscles are soft and supple, the kids are first exposed to smooth crayons and the world of colouring, followed by strokes and curves. The child’s first writing of alphabet, and number is an achievement in itself, and a pride for the parents and teachers. The most significant aspect of this early childhood education is installing confidence in these kids. Oral recitation of rhymes, songs, stories is an activity which enthralls the children and rejuvenates their energy levels to a new scale, and sows the seeds of confidence simultaneously.  Equal efforts from parents and the preschool teachers play a pivotal role in shaping the minds of these toddlers. Laden with tiny, colourful school bags, clad in bright uniform, the toddlers slowly march their way to the world of knowledge. By the time the kid completes a year or two of preschool education, the child knows and can identify animals, flowers, fruits, and many other objects he/she sees around him/her. Thus the preschool education prepares the 6 year old now to step boldly into the shoes of primary education.

Kudos to the preschool teachers for their undaunted priceless efforts in performing this herculean task of giving the first shape to the clay. The effort of the preschool teachers is highly commendable and praiseworthy, and requires utmost recognition and unanimous gratitude from the society.

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

P........

 Patience, perseverance, persistence, persuasion can drive a passion to the peak of popularism and perfectionism. 

Sunday, June 12, 2022

OVERCOMING THE CHALLENGES IN TRANSITION FROM VIRTUAL TO REAL CLASSROOMS....

 The most highly evolved species among the living organisms, Homo sapiens, i.e human beings are considered to be the experts when it comes to adaptability and acclimatization. Darwin's theory of ' Struggle for existence and Survival of the fittest' are evident proofs for this. a couple of years back when the fast paced life was at its peak globally, nature took everyone for a surprise when struck by the tiny living organism, COVID 19 VIRUS, life came to a standstill as confinement within the four walls of shelter in one's abode seemed to be the sole way out to escape getting victimized. 

The new normal came in ....virtual world, as people all across the world took to cyber world. Meetings, offices, schools, colleges everything online. the biggest challenge posed for schools, as kids had to get accustomed to screen exposure at early age. Video on.....mute....unmute....PDFs etc were the new vocabulary. The only good thing was not having to wake up early, get ready and travel. The same classes and work could be carried out sitting in the comfort of the couch or bed in casuals and just keeping formal in front of the monitor. However, the urge to move out started creeping in, and soon things seemed to be in control to start working offline. 

However, with two years of home comfort, back to physical schooling is again a challenge as kids are fighting exertion and exhaustion resulting from formal seating in a classroom for long hours. The 3 hour online classes are now back to offline 6 to 7 hours, almost double what it was. Definitely, restlessness sets in after 4 hours leading to entropy in the classroom. This is most seen in the 5 to 8 year old kids who are not habituated to sitting at one place. Making them do so is a challenge faced by the teachers who too are shifting from online to offline. 

Human beings, esp, the kids are quick to adapt to changes, what requires is patience and perseverance. Forcing anything upon them can only invite rebellion and the outcome would be disastrous, as many would resort to truancy. Having a balance routine of physical activities and academic routines on the Timetable can help in this matter. Keeping only 2 written works for the day might also work as most kids show reluctance in writing. Getting the bones and muscles in the body to move from the rest period is actually the requirement. It is advisable to have kids jump in their places, perform a 2 minute exercise or a 2 minute meditation to get them set for the lessons. 

Though they should be instructed to take studies seriously, in case they don't, reprimanding them for that would only spoil things. Counseling is needed to understand the reason behind this attitude. At every step, every child has to be handled with utmost care and feelings are to be taken care of. 

Flexibility is a trait in kids, and with time the real world normality would soon return. 

Tuesday, May 17, 2022

JOY IN NATURE

 Holding an umbrella 

I walked in the rain

Thanking my heart 

For the decision made 

To venture out in the rain 

Overshadowing the idea of calling a cab

To enjoy the beauty of Nature 

Raindrops touching the ground...

Leaves swaying in glee and delight 

Flowers with droplets shimmering in joy

Can visualize the peacocks swaying to rhythm 

The whole world of flora and fauna gleaming merrily with excitement 

The finest creation of Almighty wondering to laze and ponder 

To skip work and lie in bed 

Under covers to coze and drown 

A call from Nature beckons 

To come out and enjoy 

Breathe in  the freshness and cheer in the joy!!!

Sunday, April 17, 2022

JOURNEY OF MOTHERHOOD

 

The train stood at the platform

Waiting to pull out....

Carrying my heart and soul in it 

To a journey of her dreams

As it pulled out at the dot of time

I found her pair of eyes trying to see me through the glass

The imploring misty eyed look touched my nerves

I realized how painful it is to wave the goodbye

The moving train struck the chord of emotions 

carrying me down the memory lane 

Cradle and crawl.....

Mischief and movement around the house

Sometimes laughter, sometimes wail

Screams which seemed to bring the roof down

The school going feet

The teenager with her friends 

The board years 

The mobile 

Netflix and Music

Swiggy and Zomato to tide over the simple home made food

Suddenly youth turned into adulthood 

School to college 

The kiddo seems to be a smart damsel 

Bold and decisive 

Smart and intelligent independently handling her life

But for me still the kid calling me out for every little thing

Motherhood is so strange 

Never lets the kid grow 

Never accepts that change

Heart full of love 

Hugs and blessings 

With just a prayer to keep her safe and sound 

Everywhere she goes!!!